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I have mentioned before how H seems to make his own worst nightmares come true. Not that his daughter is a nightmare, she is truly an angel, but he seems to continue creating bad situations for himself through choice of actions that knowingly don’t/won’t serve him any good. For as unbelievably intelligent as he is,Continue reading “Chapter 5-Anything”

It’s been almost a month now since our epic fight, break up, and I left. A month since I have seen him in person. I will be officially moved out as of this weekend. Although we have been very friendly, spoken on the phone, and even FaceTimed a few times the last week- I amContinue reading “Update-C’est la vie”

Having returned back to what is now solely his house, in order to pack, my daughter broke down in tears as soon as we walked through the door. This was our home after all, even if for a short time. We both sat in the living room just crying and crying for what felt likeContinue reading “Update- Stages of grief”

To say life is complicated is an understatement. We both need time to heal. To grow. To figure out who we are on our own. I’m sure he will date, have fun adventures, of course become even more successful than he already is, and I know he will find a woman as amazing as him in noContinue reading “Update 4- What now”

The next couple years seemed to fly by as I was floating on cloud 9. I graduated college with a BS in biology. The first in my family to earn a college degree. H made sure he was there to support me. He took photos and cheered me on. Even printed one picture in anContinue reading “Chapter 4- We can”

I received a job offer. Actually an opportunity I was excited for, out here with him. I really thought it was a sign that this is where I am supposed to be, in this town that I have seen a whole new side too and started actually falling in love with the last couple weeks,Continue reading “Update- Happy New Year”

Merry Christmas Eve. With the holidays upon us I have not had time to finish my next chapter however, there is still so much going on that I felt a second update was appropriate. We are given one life to live and it is up to us to live it in the manner and wayContinue reading “Update 3- part 2”

Life is funny. I think it doesn’t work out the way we expect for good reason. Everything has a purpose, including us in one way or another, even if we go a lifetime without seeing it. If everything always went according to plan, then the world would not be the beautiful place it is. AmidContinue reading “Update 3- Merry Christmas”

How does one begin writing about themselves? Who they really are from an open and vulnerable perspective. I asked several of my friends to describe me in a sentence in order to give me some sort of starting point. Their responses were so uplifting that it brought me to tears from realizing that I amContinue reading “Chapter 3 – Just me”

Have you ever given advice and yet can’t seem to follow your own words of wisdom, despite knowing it’s the right thing to do for your physical and mental health, as well as the well-being of your family. Why can’t I take my own advice? Why can’t I sit back and see what others areContinue reading “Update 2- Facing reality”